painting my kitchen again

I just can't take it! We painted our kitchen in January a very bright yellow to make it cheerful and it is just too bright. I would love to go plain jane, pottery barn , light colors in the kitchen and family room (they connect) but I am getting opposition from my other half. Who likes color. My wardrobe consists of mostly, black, brown, gray and white. After a confrontation.. we are looking to compromise.... :-( lighter yellow and still the green in the family room. I brought home 2 samples of a paint , one lemon creme, and the the one I really really really like called coconut milk. I will keep you update on the outcome. Need to prime the wall and test them... keep your fingers crossed. Don't think he will budge on this one folks......